After having a debate with someone in one of my groups I run on Facebook I decided to post this to see how others view things. Would you consider flirting with other people when in a relationship an act of cheating or harmless fun? I have my opinion and think its playful fun bc if your secure within your own skin and you trust the person your with it should be a non issue. Also if someone your dating no longer likes you they would just get up and leave so they can go find happiness elsewhere.
Thank You for reading!
Autistic Female
Aug 28, 2013 @ 04:53:05
thanks for this awsome post 🙂
Aug 30, 2013 @ 04:23:05
The answer depends on the situation. But generally I think it is okay to flirt with a non-significant other so long as it is done tastefully (i.e. no getting handsy). It would not be tasteful to flirt with the same individual too often or too strongly, because you might unintentionally send that person the message that you are interested in him or her. Also, you shouldn’t flirt too strongly with another person in front of your significant. That could make your significant feel, well, insignificant. I like the wisdom in this phrase: “I don’t care where you work up your appetite, so long as you eat at home.”